"What Can I Make You Do?"
Admit it, ladies. This one is fun to play. When you meet a boy, and he likes you a whole lot, he is usually willing to do just about anything for you. Oh, and once you realize this, it's hard not to take advantage of it! It's a bad habit, but it's a forgivable offense, as long as you don't continue it once you know better.
And it starts out innocent enough, because it's just him being chivalrous and you innocently complying. He holds the doors open, pulls a chair out here and there, brings a flower, helps you over a big puddle. But then...he carries your purse, starts buying your lunch at school, running to the convenience store to buy your feminine products. It becomes an addiction-- your friends are telling you how sweet he is and you feel a sense of pride in what a great boyfriend you have.
Okay, so it's adorable that he might be willing to do all this, but bottom line is that it's not fair to him. Second of all, if all he does is follow you around like a puppy, you might start to lose respect for him, which even more unfair, because you may have gotten upset with him if he didn't happily agree to do all the things you asked him to. It's best to avoid this game, because you both want to remain individuals though you're dating each other.
"How Many Girls Can I Get"
There are many things in this world to collect. Rocks, stamps, bottle caps, sneakers, sneakers, you name it. Items are things to be collected. Girls, on the other hand, are not. Being a "player" may seem like fun, but it's ultimately a pretty sleazy game to play. Guys are more guilty than girls when it comes to this one, but girls aren't totally off the hook.
The way this game is played is self -explanatory. You try to raise your "pimp" status by having as many girlfriends as you can, and ironically, it makes you more desirable to other girls and cooler to other guys. The best way to get more girls though, is not to tell them about each other! This is where this game becomes a bad idea.
No one likes being lied to. You wouldn't and the girls you date certainly don't either. Basically, it's going to end in a big mess of hate. Jessica will hate Jenny. They'll both hate Christina and Gisela. But most importantly, they'll all hate YOU.
This game is an unhealthy one, and can be detrimental when you actually meet one girl that you really like, because you will have to find a way to leave the other girls, who will not appreciate seeing you with someone new so soon. One way or another, someone, either the ex girl, or a jealous guy will out you, and you might end up losing the person you really do like.
The best idea is, if you want to date more than one person at a time, be honest about it (it's called covering your butt). Think "John Tucker Must Die". At the end, he still dated a few girls, he just let them know about it!